devoted to strawberries? With games and rides and people walking around dressed up like actual strawberries? Really? Why did I agree to this? What was I thinking? But Iâd made a commitment. I promised Iâd go.
Until I found out that Tiger Woods had entered the Byron Nelson Tournament and was playing in a twosome with a friend of mine. Tiger had just won the Masters and was on a roll. I knew he would kick my friendâs ass, but I wanted to see my friend go head-to-head with Tiger. How many times do you get to watch your buddy play with Tiger Woods on national television? I wanted to get comfortable on my couch, pour myself a couple of adult beverages, roll out some snacks, and watch the golf tournament on my big screen.
I broke the news to my wife. I told her I changed my mind. I was gonna stay home and watch golf. I wasnât leaving the house.
âWhat about the strawberry festival?â
âUnfortunately, I have a conflict. Something came up. Something unforeseen and unavoidable. I have to watch the golf tournament.â
âBut you saidââ
âI know what I said. And I meant it. At the time. But my friendâs playing against Tiger. Could be a once-in-a- lifetime thing. I canât miss that. You can go to the strawberry festival without me. Youâll have a better time. I donât love strawberry cream pie all that much, especially in the heat.â
âIâm not going without you.â
âWell, youâre gonna have to.â
Things escalated from there. Kind of got heated. Shouting, screaming, finger-pointing, name-calling. I donât remember exactly what we said, but I remember doors slamming and a lot of crying. My wife got upset, too.
Bottom line: I got my way. My wife went off to the strawberry festival, and I settled in to watch the golf tournament. I found my spot on the couch, kicked off my shoes, aimed the remote andâ
Fffzzzt
.
The cable went out.
One minute Iâm looking at Tiger; a second later Iâm staring at a pitch-black screen.
âSon of a bitch.â I whacked the back of the remote with my palm. That usually works. I tried the TV again.
Nothing.
I couldnât believe it.
âThe damn cableâs
out
?
â
Whack, whack, whack.
Nothing.
Then I realized what happened. âShe probably cut the wire.â
I groaned miserably. I figured this was either an example of my luck or God getting back at me for bailing on my wife.
I never did see Tiger and my friend playing in the Byron Nelson, but at least I avoided the long lines in the heat at the strawberry festival.
But to this dayâsixteen years laterâI gag whenever anybody mentions anything to do with strawberries.
âInterested in dessert?â
âTempt me. What do you have?â
âPies. We bake all our pies here. We have apple pie, cherry pie, and our house favorite, creamy, gooey strawberry cream pieââ
I gag, cover my mouth, and bolt into the bathroom.
HAVING KIDS AFTER FIFTY OR . . . ARE YOU CRAZY ?
IâVE been blessed to have accomplished a few things in my life, but when people ask me, âWhatâs your number one achievement?â I always say, âThatâs easy. My incredible daughter, Mayan.â
Sheâs the best thing that ever happened to me. Everything else is in second place.
And believe me, Iâm glad I became a father in my thirties, because when youâre over fifty, having a kid will age you rapidly.
Thatâs the last thing you needâsomething that makes you older faster.
If youâre over fifty and you get into a serious relationship with a younger woman, the question of having kids will come up. Itâs inevitable. And you wonât like it. One night youâll be in bed minding your own business, watching TV or sorting through your golf tees, and your girlfriend, wearing something slinky and sexy, will cuddle up next to you and very casually start having
Tony Dungy, Nathan Whitaker