“ride the waves” as I climax over and over again, for as long as he can remain hard inside me.
My husband says he never masturbates on his own but he has played with himself once or twice with me. I find it so erotic
to watch a man pleasure himself. It gives me insight as to what he likes and what works for him.
A fifty-four-year-old woman wrote:
To get in the mood for my daily masturbation session I think of one of the men I’ve talked with on the Net whom I have special
feelings for. I’ll stretch out on the bed, sometimes with a rubber dildo or sometimes just using my hand stroking my clit,
and relax and fantasize about how it might be with him there with me.
Sometimes I masturbate in the morning when I first awaken. I’ll lie there half asleep, using one hand on my satin sleep shirt
to caress my nipples while the other steals down to my mound, allowing my fingers to slip into my wetness. I slowly stroke
my clit dreaming of my chosen partner, imagining him beside me there in bed.
I’ve asked some of the men I speak to on-line about if it would turn them on to see me masturbate for them, because I thought
it might be a turnoff thinking they weren’t enough for me. Surprisingly to me they were very positive about it.
A fifty-eight-year-old woman wrote:
I masturbate several times a week when I’m alone, but less often when my partner and I are together, although we do like to
do it together. Sometimes we even do it over the phone since ours is a long-distance relationship.
A twenty-five-year-old man wrote:
Sure, I masturbate from time to time. When I was married my wife knew and at first she thought it was insulting and gross.
It took a while but I convinced her it was a good thing to do. Eventually she grew to like it and wanted to watch. Now that
we are divorced I have heard from her several times as a friend that she appreciates my teaching her to be less inhibited.
A twenty-seven-year-old man wrote:
My routine is to think of a girl I know. A lot of times it is an undergrad I am tutoring or someone I see around the campus.
I imagine being seduced as I try to tutor her. At other times I dream that I’m seducing a pretty little freshman.
A lot of times, though, I am tricked into a compromising situation and raped by a woman with a strap-on. I use a lot of lotion
and, as I stroke, my other hand cups my testicles, my back arches off the bed, and I scream very very loudly!
A thirty-year-old man wrote:
I have masturbated at least three times per day since I was twelve, and about twice a week before that, starting at age nine.
Just to see what it would be like, I masturbated fifteen times in one twenty-four-hour period when I was fifteen.
I typically rub my cock while in the car on the way home, or discreetly under the desk at work. Sometimes women in SUVs or
other tall vehicles will observe me while my car is stopped at a light.
When I get home I enjoy reading erotica or looking at pornographic images as my cock hardens and my balls cinch up. I will
then often rub my asshole and penetrate it with a finger, the top of a shampoo bottle, or a rounded wrench handle.
A thirty-two-year-old bisexual man wrote:
I like to lie back, lube myself up really good, and slowly stroke myself with a tight grip. I usually read erotic stories
and get close to climax, then slow down, and continue doing this until I can come at the same time as the characters in the
stories. Sometimes I use an anal vibrator when I masturbate, and that provides incredible sensations that lead to explosive
orgasms.
My wife knows I masturbate, and she often asks me if I have masturbated that day. If I have, she asks me to describe what
I did. She occasionally asks me to put on a show for her. That’s really exciting.
She, too, masturbates and it turns me on in an instant when she tells me about it. I especially like it when she tells me
she got so hot thinking about me that she had to go into the ladies’
Jennifer McCartney, Lisa Maggiore