your office, Mr. Peck,” Rosy inquired.
“Never mind, Rosy. I don’t think he will be back anytime soon.”
THREE MORE SUMMERS OF my temporary social work followed,
engendering many intense experiences.
I was posted to Mary’s Harbour on the Labrador Coast, a small community in the
bottom of St. Lewis Bay, named after the river that flowed into the harbour. I
boarded with the Coish family, a truly wonderful experience, with the
father/husband, Bert, my hired captain with his twenty-seven-foot boat, as we
plied the coastal communities as part of my job. His wife, a remarkable woman in
her own right, kept a small retail store and oversaw the upbringing of seven
children.
I was informed by a young woman last year that her great-grandmother had passed
away. Memories of that wonderful ladycame rushing to the fore,
prompting me to write a little tribute to be read at the funeral.
A TRIBUTE
EVA COISH. MRS. COISH , that’s how I knew
her.
Life is so strange since only a few weeks ago I began an effort (I am writing a
book on my life) to track down some of the people who formed part of my memories
from early school through my university years. I inquired of my brother whether
he remembered telling me about meeting “one of the Coish boys” I knew when I was
in Mary’s Harbour years ago.
And then last evening arriving home I retrieved a phone message from Charmaine
telling me of the passing of her great-grandmother, Eva Coish!
I said in my book The Past in the Present that my time on the Labrador
Coast was “magnificent” and I meant it, for I met and lived with people like
Mrs. Coish and Bert. It was always Mrs. Coish to me, the confident matriarch
overseeing her family, always in control.
I arrived in Mary’s Harbour in April in Bert’s boat. He had come to pick me up
in Fox Harbour where I had been sort of marooned because of a four-day
nor’easter and ice.
But from the moment I crossed the threshold of the Coish household, I became
one of them, ah, but not before, however, appropriate questioning (ha!) by the
missus.
What do I remember most about Mrs. Coish?
The meals—unbelievable—and being really the oldest “son” I had to always clean
the plate.
She tricked me once. She put on this great supper with all the trimmings:
vegetables and meat and gravy and as I was busy gulping down the food, she posed
the question: “Do you know what meat you are eating?” Of course, I mumbled that
it was meat, perhaps moose, rabbit, etc., trying to come up with the right
answer. And with a laugh she said, “No, you’re wrong—it’s porcupine.” It took me
a while to get over that. But I came to love it.
Her diplomacy—yes she had some of that when it was necessary. A
young RCMP officer who was then stationed in Battle Harbour was invited for
dinner, and the missus put on quite the scoff! However, unknown to us at the
time, our young Prairie officer was having a hard time adjusting to this strange
place. He apparently had asked for the water jug on a couple of occasions and no
one heard him. When finally he received it, he flipped. He cleared the table in
one gigantic thrust of the arm, and water and food scattered across the room.
Like a UN diplomat, the steady hand of the missus brought peace to what
otherwise would have been an ugly incident as the rest of us were ready for a
more physical response.
Her authority—she tended over us all and never missed a beat, and most
particularly she was a good adviser on the goings-on. Once she had to console me
after I was tricked into providing assistance to an ineligible elderly gentleman
who saw it as his goal to embarrass this young gaffer from the island whom he
was sure was disguised as a welfare officer. And she had warned me and I still
got taken.
In another time and place she would have been the president or manager of some
big operation. As it was, she influenced us all