screaming inside my head were going to burst out of my mouth â and then God knows what Kas would do to me. But, instead of shouting, âHelp me, Mum! Iâm trapped here and I need you,â I fought back the tears and said, âIâve decided to stay here in Italy, with Kas. Weâre planning to go travelling together later. So ⦠So I wonât be coming home for a while.â
âYouâre going to stay there?â My mother sounded shocked, and when she spoke again I could tell she wascrying. âBut, darling, what about ⦠What about your job?â She paused for a moment before adding hastily, âIâm pleased for you, of course. If youâre happy with Kas, thatâs great. Itâs just â¦â
âI have to go now, Mum,â I interrupted her. âSorry. Iâll call you again soon.â I hated myself for hurting her. There was a tight pain in my chest and as Kas reached across and took the phone from my hands, I broke down and began to sob.
Much later, I discovered that my mother had tried to convince herself that her sense of disquiet was really just hurt feelings because of the ease with which I seemed to be able to walk away from my family. Sheâd tried to accept what Iâd told her and be happy for me, although when she told my sister, Emily, âSophieâs going to stay in Italy,â and Emily burst into tears and wailed, âI want her to come home. I donât want her to be away,â Mum had cried too. But she knew Steve was right when he said, âSophieâs young. Sheâs enjoying herself, having fun. Itâs what you want for her. I know how close the two of you have always been, but let her go, love. Sheâll be back in touch when all the excitement dies down a bit. And even if she ends up marrying the man, Italy isnât exactly on the other side of the worldâ â although, for me, it might just as well have been, because the world Iâd been forced to live in was not one I had even imagined existed.
Iâve always phoned my mother at least once every day, and I continued to call her almost daily for the first few days because Kas wanted to keep everything as normal aspossible to avoid raising anyoneâs suspicions. But, after a while, as he became more violent towards me, I found it increasingly difficult to sound ânormalâ when I spoke to Mum and, gradually, I phoned her less often, until several days would sometimes pass before I answered her text and voice messages.
It must have been hard for my mother when the close relationship weâd always had seemed to come to such an abrupt end. But she told herself that her misgivings â about whether I was really happy and everything was all right â were due to the fact that what Iâd done was so out of character, and that she should be happy Iâd had the confidence to spread my wings and start a new, independent life away from home.
I had other messages too, from friends as well as from my sister and brothers, and before I answered them, Kas would say to me, âDo not say anything to raise anyoneâs suspicions. Act normally. Do not mess up.â So Iâd speak quickly, always apparently with little time to spare because I was just about to go out, and Iâd tell them how great everything was and how much I was enjoying myself. Then Iâd drop the phone into Kasâs outstretched hand and wait for him to tell me what to do next.
After Iâd spoken to my mother that first day, I tried again to reason with Kas. âCouldnât I go back home for just a few days?â I asked him. âI need to tie things up and say goodbye to people. Iâm supposed to give a monthâs notice at work, and I canât simply walk out on them.â
But he just sneered at me as he said, âYouâre always such a timid little mouse. Why are you so frightened of these people? They wouldnât