stared at me almost in horror, as if Iâd just asked to borrow her toothbrush, and said, âHoneyâyou are not serious, are you?â
I laughed as if Iâd just successfully pulled her leg. When Chris called that night, it was the first thing I asked him.
âT-ball?â he said. âThatâs what they do with the little guys, to get them started in baseball.â
âI know that much,â I said. âBut what does it look like?â
âItâs a stand where you can set the ball and they can hit it, rather than you pitching it to them. I guess they canât hit a moving object yet at that age.â Chris gave his signature âhuh,â which came out in a short, husky breath. âI figure if they canât hit a moving ball, they arenât ready for baseball.â
âWell, too bad, because Iâve got Ben signed up. He starts in Mayâand heâs playing soccer until then.â
âWhatâs this all about?â Chris said. âI thought you were too busy to get him into after-school activities.â
âI just think he needs some outlets. You know how much energy he has.â
âSo, is that girlâwhatâs her name, Lindsayâis she taking him?â
âNo, I am. Iâm working afternoons at home now so I can be available for Ben.â
There was a long pause. I could picture Chris taking that all in, his brown-eyes-on-the-edge-of-green pondering some object on the coffee table as he processed information that had come as a surprise to him. His attorney self wouldnât let him reveal that heâd been caught off guard, of course. It was something heâd learned early in his career: any kind of agitation looked unnatural layered on top of the soft boyishness of his eyes and his smile, as if things negative didnât fit him. Juries, he said, didnât like to be jarred that way.
âI like the sound of that,â he said now.
Like I was waiting for your approval,
I thought. But I bit it back. I actually felt a little guilty about holding back the fact that Benâs behavior was getting worse.
âWhat I donât like,â Chris went on, âis that Iâm being left out of this equation.â
Here it came. I closed my eyes and pretended I was talking to Jeffrey Faustman. âYou can see him anytime you want to.â
âNot when heâs twelve hours away.â
I dug my feet between the suede cushions on the study couch.
âTell me something,â I said. âIf we were with you in Richmond and we had Ben in sports, would you make homemade granola bars?â
âWhat the heck does that have to do with soccer?â
âEverything, apparently. I didnât even know until my first soccer meeting that juice boxes are the drink of choice in the kindergarten setâdid you?â
âJuice comes in boxes?â
âAnd would you catch balls while he hit them off the T?â
âYou better believe it.â
âReally. When? At 9 P.M., when you get home from the office? Or at 7 A.M. on Saturday before you go to the office?â
âI would find the time for my son.â
âYouâd pencil him in.â
âToni, come onââ
âIâm not trying to pick a fight with you, Chris. Iâm just being realistic. Iâve always done it all since the day Ben was born, and I see no evidence that it would change if I came back to Richmond.â
He stopped to ponder again. I took that time to congratulate myself. I could very easily have inserted the fact that although he had never had time to spend with Ben, he
had
carved out enough hours for a girlfriend. I tried never to lower myself to that tactic. Besides, he would only have countered with, âIf you hadnât insisted on working, you wouldâve had time for me and then I wouldnât have strayed.â And then I would have been up all night with spinal pain all the way to my