The Sex MANual: Uncensored by Desiree Dean

against her will. By doing this and still keeping in touch with that softer side of you in the back of your mind, you can really get your woman going and really make one of her biggest fantasies come true. It’s time to be a man again.
     
    Threesome (With Another Woman) – Now, more than ever before, straight women are leaning towards having bisexual tendencies and being more attracted to the same sex. There are so many programs on television and so many scenes in movies that depict just this. When women see how tender sex can be with a woman, it makes them want to experience it and feel it for themselves. Not to mention, this is probably one of your biggest fantasies as well so it is a win-win.
    The possibility of having a threesome with another woman is probably not as unlikely as you think it might be. If you both can find the right person and one that she can especially trust in that won’t put the moves on you and ruin the experience for her, then you might be good to go. However, you have to lay ground rules and for women, they are usually as follows:
    When women fantasize about having a threesome with another woman, they tend to look at the man as a voyeur. She wants you to sit back and watch until she feels comfortable enough to allow you to join in. Then, you are probably only limited to having sex with her rather than touching the other woman. This extinguishes any jealousy that she might feel, which would otherwise ruin the entire experience.
     
    Threesome (With Another Man) – It is also another fantasy that women have to go the other way with a threesome and be involved with two men. The reasoning behind this threesome is because it makes the woman feel all the more desirable and sexy. To have two heterosexual men who are after her and wanting her, it makes her feel powerful. She wants to have that penetrating feeling from one while she goes down on the other. She feels like she is satisfying two men at one time and that makes her feel a crazy amount of sexual satisfaction.
    Let’s face it – this is probably a fantasy that you aren’t going to want to act out anytime soon. A lot of men are uncomfortable with the idea of being naked with another man, even if there is no contact between the two at all. Men are not as comfortable with sexuality as women are, so unless you are, then you will want to avoid this.
     
    Force Fantasies – As scary and as unsettling as the real thing would be, some women do have fantasies of being forced to have sex. Of course, this has to be done in a tasteful and trusting way. If you go too far with it, then you will breach her trust and that takes a long time to build back up again.
    Start slow if you want to test the waters with your woman on this one. Start off ambushing her one night when she is wearing a skirt. Try sliding her panties to one side and going at her that way. Chances are, she will respond well to something as small as that because it goes along with her fantasy of you dominating her. Then, you can take things further.
     
    Bondage – BDSM or bondage and sadomasochism are becoming way more popular and way more mainstream these days. Couples want to experience with being tied up, flogged, gagged and many other things. Your woman also wants to try some of these things as well from both perspectives. Bondage and BDSM has to do a lot with domination and submission. One of you will be the dom who does the controlling while the other is the sub who takes the punishment. You can easily play this off and then change things up another night. Start slow because being gagged, bound and penetrated might be way too much for her to take right off the bat and then you easily ruin any future experience with one bad one.
     
    Teacher/ Student – Just as the sexy teacher bad student fantasy is one of yours, it is also one of hers. This is a pretty tame fantasy and one that involves some sexy role playing. This is easily one that you and your woman can make a reality. It is