The Sex MANual: Uncensored by Desiree Dean Page A

harmless fun and something that you both can enjoy. Seeing her in that sexy pencil skirt, white button down shirt with her lacy bra exposed and her hair up in a bun will not only get your juices flowing, but it will get hers as well. Knowing that you are aroused will really get her going and want her to make this fantasy come true even more.
    You can easily suggest this fantasy to your woman to see if she would be game for it. It is harmless, sexy fun and definitely something that she will want to try. Then, not only are you making her fantasy come true, but you are also making one of yours come true at the exact same time.
     
    Sex in Public – Chances are, your woman has thought about how sexy it would be if you and her were totally getting it on in public and someone was to either walk in and catch you or sit in the distance and watch. Exhibitionism is a massive fantasy for so many men and women. The thrill of potentially being caught might be enough for some people but for some, they love the idea of someone in the distance watching. Women want to live dangerously and this is a big fantasy for a lot of them. Your woman will more than likely be open to the idea of sex in public and might even eventually be the one to suggest it.
    To get the ball rolling on this one, try courting her in the car after dinner or wherever you may be. This is public enough to give you the thrill but it is still private enough where she will feel safe and protected. After you get away with it once in an innocent way, then you can work your way up to more dangerous scenarios.
     
    Private Dancer – It is a fantasy that most women have to be their man’s own private dancer. Women know how much men really enjoying going to the strippers and being teased and taunted by women. Since they are aware of this, they want to have that moment and that power all to themselves. Your woman wants to get in front of you and dance to the point of getting you so hard that you can’t control yourself. Then, she wants to tease you because you aren’t allowed to touch her. She not only gets to feel desirable by moving her body in such a way that totally turns you on but she gets to feel that control in knowing that there is nothing you can do about it.
     
    Keep in mind that these are just fantasies and not sex tips that you need to act upon. If you want to try to make one of these come true for your woman, it might not be as easy as you think it is. Some of the above fantasies are tamer than others but for the hardcore ones, they might always remain just a fantasy and that is okay. The whole point of gaining this knowledge is to help you to become a better lover in the bedroom. You don’t necessarily have to make any of these fantasies come true for your woman but just being aware of them instantly changes how you are in the bedroom and for the better.
     

 
     
    Chapter 10
    Sex Toys
    What to Use and How to Use Them on Her
     
    Sometimes, we just need that extra little source of help in the bedroom to really get a woman going and to really give her that orgasm that she has been waiting for. Since the female body is so intricate and complicated, you are sometimes unable to give her intense pleasure with the usual means of touching, licking or making love. Sometimes, men need a little help to really give a woman intense pleasure and this source of help is found in sex toys.
    Sex toys are becoming more and more popular amongst couples in the bedroom, especially with heterosexual couples. Sex toys have always been really prevalent in the gay and lesbian communities but straight couples are using them too. No matter how good you may think you are in the bedroom, there are things that toys can do for your woman that you can’t even come close to.
    Since sex toys are so advanced and sometimes better than what men can offer, men want to avoid them because they feel threatened or intimidated. It is possible for a man to feel belittled by some tiny little vibrator