his bad clothes, which Iâve tried hard to fix. Except I was the one who judged. Because here was this remarkable person, this loving, funny, amazingly kind person.â
He talked for a few more minutes. I stopped listening, though, merely took in the tone, the reaction on the faces, laughing in the right places, moved at the right times. I thought of my familyâEddie, Kevin, Mauraâwhom Iâd invited. Granted, it was a half-assed invitation, giving them an out if they wanted, saying I understood that it was a long way to comeâespecially for Kevinâfor just a few hours on a Sunday night in Brooklyn. I said there was always the wedding. As it turned out, they all had plans that would have been tough to break. And I really didnât expect them to come.
Much later, after we canceled the wedding, we had to return the gifts. It took an entire day, Amyâs mother coming with us. We spoke almost not at all. The clerks would inevitably ask if there was any reason for the return. âWeâve canceled our wedding,â Amy would say simply.
Late in the day, with one gift to return, Amy reached her limit. I told her Iâd do it. I would have walked to Tierra del Fuego on my hands if it would have changed the expression on her face, lifted the gloom. All day Iâd opened doors and gotten water and coffee, carried boxes and tried to smile, waited on them both like a beaten servant. And I was happy to play the role. I kept saying sorry.
We were standing on Fifty-seventh and Lex and it was getting dark. I wanted a movie moment, a smile, a hug. I wanted forgiveness. Her mother stood a few feet away, examining her hands.
I said, âIâll call you, okay?â
Amy stared. âNo, Fin. You wonât.â
I said, âIâm sorry, I didnât mean anything by it.â
Amy, with too much edge, her patience spent: âStop saying youâre sorry , Fin.â
It was loud on the street. Cabs honking their horns, a car alarm not far away. City noise wears on you sometimes. It had been a long day. Not enough food, too much coffee. I hadnât been sleeping well. The thing is, Iâm not someone who raises their voice. It came on fast, out of control.
I said, âI didnât plan this! Okay?! The idea wasnât to hurt you! You think I like this? Hurting you? I donât! Iâm just so fucking sorry, okay?â
My throat closed up and my eyes welled and my hands were shaking and I was pretty sure I was going to vomit. I bent forward, hands on my knees, like I was in a huddle, and a strange sound emanated from me, a kind of primal moan.
And just that fast whatever anger was there was gone, and in its place an overwhelming regret that I had created all of this. I stood up and put my hands on my hips, trying to catch my breath, my heart beating like I just ran the hundred-yard dash. I think in that moment, for the first time in weeks, Amy saw me differently. If the look on her face was any indicationâthough how can one ever know these things for sure?âI think she saw that she wasnât the only one in pain. Which is why she then sobbed harder than she had the night I said I couldnât do it, wailing away a block from Bloomingdaleâs.
The point is that I never made it to Simon Pearce that day to return our last engagement party gift. Nor any day after that. I kept it. I do not know why, exactly, but I needed to hold on to it, even if only for the imaginary dinner party I would have with my imaginary wife, where one needs an obscenely expensive gravy boat.
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The phone startles me. I see the display, the area code before the number. 617. Boston. Itâs Eddie. It has to be. I watch myself watch the phone ring, like someone in a movie, and think, as I do when Iâm watching a movie like that, Answer the phone! A tingling in my stomach, in my palms. Answer the phone, itâs your brother, for