to
me.
I wish she’d let me be.
Suddenly everything she does makes me mad.
The caring and sharing
suddenly feels overbearing.
I don’t need her sympathy.
God it has been such a week.
I haven’t given a second look to the note
Benji wanted to leave for me
because when I think about it
my soul bleeds.
I don’t need that.
Not when I need to be strong.
Strong so Mom will work
to get me back
even though Benji is making me pick
up his slack.
I can be everything my
mother needs
and I am going to prove that
when we celebrate Christmas
together.
99.
I do my best to remain hopeful
over the fact that Christmas Eve happiness
is dependent
on a woman I shouldn’t count on
yet still long
for.
I’m in Ms. Francine’s car.
I feel like half my life is spent
sitting in this vehicle
as she takes me from one place to the next
meetingstherapyschool.
Now
on the eve of Christmas
I’m sitting here like a fool
waiting for Mom to show.
“Louisa, it’s been fifteen minutes since you were supposed to meet, would you like to use my phone to call her?” Ms. F asks.
“No, just give her a few more minutes. She’ll be here.”
Come on
don’t forget now, after this week.
I’m on a losing streak.
Come on
I don’t want it to happen this way.
I somehow want Ms. F to be proven wrong.
Not like she’s told me she wants my mom to fail
to not follow through,
but somehow it’s like I think she thinks
she wouldn’t.
Come on
I never need much
ask for much
tell too much
but right now I want to prove to Ms. F-
the one who is always a show
never lets go
or forgets or misses a beat
that my mom
remembers
me.
“It’s been thirty minutes, Louisa. What are you thinking you’d like to do?”
“I don’t care,” I say in the exact way I spoke to her a year ago.
The difference was, then
I really didn’t
care.
And now
I do.
But what does that say about
Mom
Dad
Benji
Ms. Francine
Margot
Me
if I admit that?
We sit in silence another thirty minutes.
I can’t bear to look at her
or say a word.
I want her to say what I’m thinking
so I can be mad at her for saying
the things I think.
Things like:
“Where the fuck is she?”
“What the hell is more important than me?”
“Why am I all alone again,
like every shitty day of my life?”
“Let’s go. She’s not coming,” I whisper.
Ms. Francine reaches over to take my hand
her olive branch to let me know
she understands.
I pull away
fast.
As much I hate my mom and all that
she’s done to me
as she sat by and
watched as my dad destroyed me,
she’s still my mom.
And I keep holding out hope
that one-day
she’ll find a way to pay me back
for the past.
I was hoping she’d start tonight.
Instead
I’m driving to Ms. F’s
cousin’s house, on our way
to pick up Margot.
A happy family dinner where everyone
can celebrate the fact
they all have more
than I’ve got.
100.
The cousin is KiKi and
she’s loud and in charge
and talking my ear off
the moment I enter her house.
I head to the bathroom
as fast as I can.
Avoiding the toddler tantrum
happening in the hallway
and the adults laughing as they
pour champagne.
I turn on the fan and I turn on the water.
And I just want to scream.
The noise is killing me.
I take off my coat.
I take off my gloves.
I sit on the floor.
Wanting to pinch myself
squeeze myself
illicit some sort
of pain
so that I can feel something besides
the throbbing feeling in my chest that
Will. Not. Go. Away.
There’s a knock on the door.
Another knock.
“Louisa, is that you?”
Shit.
Margot’s asking to come in and my option is
let her
or stand up and go out
and I can’t do that.
Not when I am in mini-crisis mode.
No, bigger-than-that
I’m in an about-to-explode
near-heart-attack-condition.
I lift my hand to the doorknob and turn it
just enough,
so it can crack