open,
to
let
her
in.
101.
She sits
next to me on the bathroom tile.
Silent, just like Ms. Francine.
It’s like they’re in on a silent operation tactic
and I don’t want to be the first one to fold.
So I hold back.
“Louisa, do you want to talk about why you’re crying in a stranger’s bathroom on Christmas Eve?”
Do I really have to do this?
“Not really, Margot.”
I keep my head in my hands
not wanting to let her understand
me.
“Okay, look I get it, Louisa. I don’t need you to talk to me. But this is the second time in as many weeks I’ve found you huddled, alone, crying. That’s not a good sign. That’s like, a call for help. I don’t know everything that you’re going through, my sister knows way more than I do –– and not just because she’s your foster parent –– because she’s been through way more shit than me. But I feel like I get you, Louisa, and I care about you.”
That panic-attack
feeling is fleeing, fast.
I am So. Tired. Of. Trying.
“Let’s talk about something else, how’s Jess? Do you guys have any plans for break?”
I give her nothing.
I can’t
because I like Margot,
I don’t want to lose her.
If she knew me
really, really knew me
she wouldn’t stay.
I wouldn’t blame her.
“Did you ask for any Christmas gifts?"
I feel myself shutting
down.
“Um. Okay,” she tried again. “How’s the 6-Spot going? It’s been so busy I’ve barely been able to check in with you.”
I’m being difficult and I know it,
but I don’t want to own it
because then I’d have to
change.
I’d have to be willing to be
seen.
And I’m not ready to
be that sort of
girl.
The sort of brave.
“You know Toby? I guess he has a new boyfriend, they are going to see The Nutcracker tonight.”
That gets my attention.
“Really?”
I bite my lip,
not wanting to admit
that I’m a bit
jealous.
“I know, right? He’s got to be the most adorable guy ever, those eyes alone, right? But he isn’t up for grabs.”
I laughs and
she does too.
Shit.
She wins.
“Thanks,” I say.
“For what?”
“For, you know, saying those things to me. It’s just, it freaks me out. You know, the being cared about part.”
I look away
eyes stinging
heart clinging
to the good parts and the good feelings
that are flinging
around inside.
“I get it, Louisa. The being cared about part is scarier than most things. But you can be brave.”
And I don’t think I ever wanted
to believe anything as much
as those four words.
You.
Can.
Be.
Brave.
Margot
speaks the truth
I want so badly
to believe.
102.
I walk downstairs on Christmas morning
knowing that Ms. Francine was awake
from the banging in the kitchen and
the smell of coffee cooking in the pot
the music playing
yuletide carols
and whatever else sort of frankincense and myrrh
happens here on Christmas.
“You’re up!” Ms. F says.
I come into the living room and smile
even though I promised myself
I wouldn’t.
But how could I
not?
There’s a tree full of presents
and I knew it was just the two of us.
I’ve never seen that kind of loot.
At least a dozen presents
some for me some for her
it was all I could do not to stare.
“Merry Christmas, Louisa!”
She gives me a hug
and I return it
sheepishly.
I’m like a kid in one of those movies
they play on Christmas day over and over.
Where the kid gets a million and
one boxes
and they are all better than the last.
“Do you want some breakfast first?”
I do.
After my bathroom “episode”
I tried my best to be in “play nice” mode
for Margot and Ms. Francine.
It mostly just meant me sitting with
the little kids
helping them put together their
brand-new presents because it was too much
to be present.
The kids started driving me nuts
and that happens so rarely
to be